This Valentine’s Day, I do not want flowers or gifts

Valentine's Day wishlist

Dear Husband,

February, the month of love is here and Valentine’s Day is around the corner. We both know what most of the couples are planning for this day. Surprise dinners, gifts, movies, long drives and what not. The list of ideas can just go on and on. All these years I craved for these surprises from you. And I still remember how upset I used to get when you didn’t feel the excitement for Valentine’s Day as I did. I still have the letters I forced you to write. Those are my priceless possessions.

Valentine's Day Quotes

But things have changed this year. In fact ever since we became parents. The day begins with chores around our son and ends the same way. You and I hardly get anytime to talk to each other. Of course, I do complain a lot about my day or the things I couldn’t do. But we do not get quality time to spend with each other like we used to. How I miss those vacations where we just lay beneath the sun near the sea and saw the waves hit us. Hence, this Valentine’s Day, I do not want a card, letter, jewellery or flowers but

Let’s promise each other these …

1) Time Time Time ! Even if its just ten minutes in a day. Lets spend quality time with each other.

2) Watch a TV series together.  You can choose one and lets watch an episode every night or alternate nights. Or a movie every weekend.

3) Let me sleep for a bit longer over the weekends. You know how sleep deprived I am.

4) A few baby free hours over the weekend. And I promise I won’t complain if you come late on the working days

5) Cook for me. Like you used to. I know you can make only a few dishes but I promise I won’t judge. In return, I will try my hands on baking.

6) Confess our love to each other more often. Like we used to !

7) Let’s start working out. We both know we need to get fit. And it’s now or never. Let’s motivate each other to take care of our health and fitness.

I would like to end this letter with my favourite quote from A walk to remember :

“Love is always patient and kind. It is never jealous. Love is never boastful or conceited. It is never rude or selfish. It does not take offence and is not resentful. Love takes no pleasure in other people’s sins, but delights in the truth. It is always ready to excuse, to trust, to hope, and to endure whatever comes.”

Love,

Your Wife

Blog Train for valentine's day

This blog post is a part of a Blog Train that I am hosting with Jasmeet from Mommyvoyage.

We hare bringing 28 moms together,  who would share their take on Love and Relationships. This is a month long blog train. Hope you enjoy reading it 🙂

Next in this train is Priyanka from Flavoursoftheworld . Hop on to her website to read her views on this theme. To know more about other participants you may check out my post on Facebook.

39 Comments on “This Valentine’s Day, I do not want flowers or gifts”

  1. These are so sweet. My husband and I already do a lot of these, but the sleeping in we struggle with as he wants to sleep in too. I’ve been trying to go to bed earlier instead.

  2. The quote from walk to remember in the end added a flavour.. It’s a must read for couples who are struggling in outside world and not able to spent enough time in each other’s company

  3. Haha… How our wish list changes post mommyhood… Loved every bit of it Anchal…. It should be made the universal gift guide for all the dads out there..

  4. I could connect so much with this post of yours Anchal .,.and every weekend we plan we will each atleast one episode of a series but then we will sleep off with our son every single day 😂😂😂..I wish we achieve this someday..

  5. Hey Anchal lovely write up! I too feel a good work out session together, watching web series together, going out for mid coffees was the essence of ya as a couple, I plan to live these again this year.

  6. So these promises looks like history for us. We share amazing relationship but with kids it’s more silent love than loud one. I wish to achieve some promises soon.

  7. I love that fact that you have kept such simple realistic goals for yourself as a couple. I’m going to make Srini read this and maybe decide something similar.

  8. Beautiful, with every word I felt that I too had the same wishes for we, the couple, more so after having our baby 3 years back.

  9. In this new era of gadgets these are real kind of promises we need to make to each other. What a lovely post 😍😍. Happy Valentine’s Day !

  10. Hey Anchal,
    Nice post. Sweet, sincere and sounds like quite a dynamic change in your life.
    I saw a typo, if that’s the kind of feedback you want. Let me know. Otherwise, keep at it. I hope you had a wonderful Valentines day.

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